I'm not SUPER sure gender equality is worth it given the game derailment that's going to take place when your players start laughing uncontrollably after they get a look at those nips.
So I am dating again. And sure enough, the man I am currently seeing sounds...a lot like this. He is older than me, so I'm sure some of it is generational. The boyfriend *does* want to see diverse and dynamic characters in tabletop games. The current game he is DM'ing has more women playing than men; it's something I have never seen or heard of. He tries hard to be a good male feminist and still learning (like me). I have had this conversation before with men who work in comic book and game stores, one where we are seeing men actually want to see women in more than cheesecake roles. I am under the assumption it is happening in other places too.
I *do* like this guys' ogre lady. I like seeing female characters that aren't pretty and dainty.